Why would she consider cheating more hurtful because it happened during

Poetic D · 02-14-2008, 08:44 PM

her pregnancy ? Isn't it bad at ANY time? I admit that.

Why would she say it's harder to forgive me simply because she's pregnant?

Incognito · 02-14-2008, 08:44 PM

Yes, it's bad anytime. Now though, there is another person involved. It's not just between you and her anymore, it's between you and her and the baby.

If she weren't pregnant, it would be easier for her to just pack up and leave, but now she will have to consider what is best for the baby. It's a much harder choice to make.

Mom · 02-14-2008, 08:46 PM

Its horrible any time. but its particularly horrible when you are pregnant, because she is carrying YOUR child! She's at her most vulnerable state, and giving you the greatest gift you could ever get, and you cheat on her???? yeah, definitely unforgiveable.